Consent
Like any good fetish/kink space, this site emphasizes the importance of consent, aka making sure all people involved in a sexual senario actually want to be involved. Consent should be pretty clear for standard vanilla sexual situations, but fetishes and kinks can make some strange conditions, so more clairity may be needed. Feedism in particular may sometimes involve little sex, but consent is still very important.
- Don't take pictures off of someone's facebook/instagram/etc and post it elsewhere. This is good advice for almost any context, but especially so if it is going to be posted on a fetish account. Most people would feel violated to find a random picture of themself on a fetish page.
- Likewise don't take pictures of real people and post them online (unless they're a sexual partner and they said it was okay).
- On platforms where you can share other peoples posts, don't share pictures of random fat people to your feedism page, only do so if they are also involved in the feedism scene.
- Don't reupload peoples pictures or other posts without their permission, even if they are involved in feedism. This takes away their agency and control over their own content. They may want to delete a picture later on for personal reasons. They probably also want be credited and know what their work is being used for. Some people may even be trying to make money off of gaining, and reuploading their paid content takes their income away.
- Pretty basic, but don't assume that a random person wants to see pictures of you or send pictures of themself to you via private messages. Just because they're particpating in a sexual environment does not mean they want to sext with just anyone, they may want to form some trust first.
- Don't call people whales, pigs, cows, or otherwise humiluation/degrade them without first knowing if they like that kind of talk; not everyone is into humiluation. You may not have to ask, you may see them play along with other people degrading them, but if you're unsure, ask.
- Don't be rude to a gainer or feedee if they aren't gaining quickly or if they stop gaining. It's their life and body, don't be entitled.
- You may like things like force feeding and secret feeding, and of course you want to make sure a sexual partner likes these things too. You can't actually secretly feed someone without their consent, but you and a partner can roleplay as if you are. You can agree early on to certain situations in the future, with the understanding that anyone can backout at anytime.
- Eating is a normal activity that can be done in public and does not violate the other people in a resturant. So you can in fact stuff yourself or encourage a partner at a reasturant. Just don't be obvious. If you're making a show of it then you are exposing a sexual situation to people who did not ask to see it.
- Theres nothing wrong with showing off your fattened body! Yes even if you like to for the stares and double takes. Fat people can exist and wear revealing clothing.